She likes you, He likes you hey, hey, don’t think thus far, talking of liking the opposite sex oh, ’tis that simply; there is nothing you can do to ‘enhance’ the like. No wonder people who like you will ‘bend backwards and over’ for you, go the extra mile… Hmmm, where goes he??? However, if she likes you not, perish the thots or desires; why struggle to proove to her you like her? She knows, no doubt, only she doesn’t like you. Period!!! But, but, but, if you stay at it long enough, the tides may change. Eventually, but then begins a timeless journey of you continually having to ‘prove’ your like. Short of which, you dare not do a wrong. Why kill yourself before ’tis time?
“Will you really love to walk the evening years with him(her)?
musings 
I think the thing is not to push one’s limits. Many times, the guy already knows the girl does not think of him in such a manner (at least, not yet)…but yet he pushes her TOO HARD (night calls, flowers, offers etc). How about just focusing on “true friendship,” and in due season the rest will unveil itself?
(Missed reading u).
By: Jaycee on July 22, 2009
at 12:58 pm
nice post Rethots. I think after a while you have to walk away and let go.
By: Tigeress on July 22, 2009
at 1:16 pm
ow, the life of Baroque, i relate to this, when i was trying desperately to prove my like to her
…i quit & she came begging, at that time i coldnt change my mind, i was hurt
…not sure i have forgiven her
guy, later
By: bArOquE on July 22, 2009
at 2:10 pm
If she likes you not, perish the desires….
I agree mate 100%
By: akaBagucci on July 22, 2009
at 4:47 pm
LOve or like is crap men. i have given up and i suggest you do the same.
By: Temite on July 22, 2009
at 8:54 pm
ha ha ha…i actually liked this…yeah sometimes the tide maybe change,sometimes it wont…but u might acually [spend ur whole life thinking that if u had stayed a lil bit it might have worked out.
By: leggy on July 22, 2009
at 10:10 pm
Will you really love to walk the evening years with him(her)?
a question every one should ask themselves
By: ibi on July 22, 2009
at 11:49 pm
Tides may change. True
In some cases she ends up being the one who loves him more tha he would her-
I’ve seen this happen.
And if tides don’t change, dust your feet and Move along to the next-
Erasing every atom of emotion you once felt- so that the next who accepts your “like” for what it is gets a full dose of you and not the reminants of a once desire filled man.
By: ~Sirius~ on July 23, 2009
at 8:06 am
There is a NO the girl says that should be a dead end, there is a no that encourages: she wants you to prove it is worth it. You proceed so cautiously, she has to prove it too.
By: bmc on July 23, 2009
at 4:54 pm
the tides changing???? the tides may only change simply because you have stayed long enough sometimes not necessary bcos you are suddenly “liked” maybe a reward for staying and being persistent, and seeing u walk away will look “wicked”, i am spelling …sympathy here,
Well, there are exceptions to the rule, remember!
By: dta on July 23, 2009
at 4:55 pm
Do you mind if i pooist this on my face book with all due reference to you ofcourse
By: bmc on July 23, 2009
at 4:55 pm
Hmmm…i’ll say love has to be reciprocated…some pple date out of pity..eventually, it never works out right…
Sometimes though, the lady likes the guy but has to prove hard to get, you just have to be able to discern which it is.
Good to read from you again rethots. How’re you?
By: Writefreak on July 24, 2009
at 9:14 am
Word! A person is only worth being with if they can invest feelings in you voluntarily.
By: Parakeet on July 24, 2009
at 1:01 pm
I kinda disagree. You stay long enough and the tides turn and she just might end up LOVING you self. I don’t think that in every case, you will constantly have to prove your life to her. Then again, there are the exceptions.
By: Original Mgbeke on July 25, 2009
at 5:32 am
I don’t believe in trying to prove ur ‘like’. It almost always backfires. She/he dot want you, then plzzzzzzzzzzz let go!
By: Aphrodite on July 28, 2009
at 10:17 am
truly there is a NO that is final and there is a NO that encourages. is it not guys that keep saying “when she says no, she means yes”?
we just need to be sure you mean it. heck, some guys don’t want it easy! they love the thrill of the chase. so we give it to ’em. 😉
me thinks guys are getting lazy these days and looking for excuses.
once she likes you, she likes you. you’ll both have to prove ur likes, then love, to each other.
By: splash on July 29, 2009
at 9:48 am
It’s so true…
But, it’s not always that black and white. It’s hard to even explain sometimes. As in it’s possible that it’s not a straight case of you like him but he doesn’t like you…
By: isha on August 7, 2009
at 1:51 pm
naw
i only like the sisters
By: james tubman on August 10, 2009
at 5:06 pm
never turn around too fast cuz u may regret it….stick together thru thick and thin and something may just pop!
By: Ebony on August 11, 2009
at 4:30 am
nice post..give it time….and dont be too in her face
By: doll on August 11, 2009
at 7:37 am
Ahhh..A complex cycle I tell you..
By: Rose on August 11, 2009
at 9:19 am
hmm, maybe whatever rocks your boat.. maybe what will be will be.. maybe you have to hang in there.. maybe you’ll get tired and walk.. maybe if you stick long enough you’ll win.. maybe.. different actions for different situations and circumstances..
very nice post 🙂
By: ochuko on August 12, 2009
at 2:25 pm
everything works out with time,depend on the girl though.
thanks for going through everyone of my posts.
By: marilyn on August 13, 2009
at 9:29 pm
“Why struggle to proove to her you like her?” Guys and babes should learn to see the writing on the wall.
Nice post!
By: Dee! on August 17, 2009
at 12:36 pm
The trick about no proving to a lady that you love her is that if and when she comes around, you can sit back and let her do her loving bit. Which is usually a lot more than a bit.
By: tobenna on August 18, 2009
at 8:44 am
I’ve seen true love blossom out of sheer “likeness” but the many heartwrecks, exceeds the fortunate ones.
pray about it. only God will know the right one…….( did i just say pray. hmm, I need to go and eat breakfast.)
By: sweetnothin on August 19, 2009
at 1:15 pm
btw…thanks a lot for stopping by….mucho gracias and much love
By: sweetnothin on August 19, 2009
at 1:16 pm
WOW!!! Rethots!! So i woke up to over 30 email notifications…umm wow! I’d email you but i don’t see an email address. I responded to some of the comments but i doubt you’d go back to em so…
I’m ____ [can’t think of a word] lol
By: RepressedOne on November 12, 2009
at 7:49 pm